Every guy thinks he does just fine in the “getting women” category. Even if you don’t need any help with the ladies … you get all of the dates you want … you are currently in the hottest relationship you’ve ever had … don’t you want to be even 10 percent better than you are now?
Would you dare to ask the lady you are with, or the lady you are interested in getting, where you could improve in your approach to romance? Never! … you say. But just think, the ladies are interested in improving themselves. Not just for you, but often just to feel better about themselves. Your lady may even read this section of this website just to see what you may be thinking … all in an effort to improve relations with you. But since you won’t ask her directly for tips why not stick around and read up on some here?
If you have gotten this far in this article then you are interested in improvement, or tips that may seem reasonable for you to implement in your relationship with women. That’s a good thing … a very good thing. (Right ladies). This article is just a primer for the other information contained in the articles under this category.
Realize that if you are a guy, you need love and attention from a relationship too. Here is a tip for you … you can’t always just tell women that you “need” something from them. Unfortunately neediness in a man is frowned upon by most women. So how do you get what you “need” without using the word in your language or demeanor?
Communicate by your actions that you have power. Now don’t get this idea twisted. Being “powerful” doesn’t mean to act like a jerk. Demanding is not powerful. Children demand … their favorite toy, cereal, kids movie … you get the idea. What do the most powerful people do that gets them everything they need? It may sound counter intuitive but they show others respect.
“Show a woman respect” … like that’s new advice huh? Well, no it’s really not. It’s what your mom told you when you became a teenager. It’s probably what your grandmother told you too. Showing others respect means you have power … over your own natural tendency to be selfish, over your own emotions when provoked or disappointed … and what’s more showing respect gives you the right to expect … not need … it in return. A man who has a woman’s respect will more easily win her love and receive her attention. And isn’t that what we men deep down really want in a relationship with a woman?
Bottom line
If a man in a relationship with a woman shows respect to her, it will endear him to her. An endearing relationship will bring satisfaction to both men and women in that relationship. If you are known as a man that knows how to treat a woman with respect then more than one lady will find you to be desirable. If you choose one to respect above all others then you will be in a lasting relationship that will please you as well as her.
